Pernah dengar pepatah "actions speak louder than words" tak?
Haih. Aku pon boleh cakap "i sayang u" or "i cinta u" kat kucing jiran aku haa. Hari-hari aku cakap. Sakit hati tak bile orang cakap dia sayang kita tapi habuk pon takde. Macam orang tu gebang2 lah konon bapak dia Dato ke pe enn boleh beli kete Fairlady sbijik tok dia tapi makan pon mintak orang belanja. Cam cakap banyak tapi haram jela. Camtu lah yg aku nak explain enn sekarang. Cakap sayang, cakap macam2 tapi hanya sekadar ayat. Haish. Sweet talker cam kau ni...ayat menggula manis kalah enn susu pekat manis CAP TEKO tau tak? Tak sampai sesaat angkatan tentera semut dah berbaris bersedia nak serang.
I'm not a pro in relationships cause if I am, I wouldn't have failures in some of my relationships before. But still..with what I had experience, it's enough for me to say a few important basic things in every relationships. Commitment (other than trust and honesty of course. It's just too lame for me to say it).. No commitment, things just won't work out. You can't depend everything on just one side can you? Aku geram lah.
And guys..maybe to some of you...(well, ni basically for guys yang mostly my friends lah enn)..girls are just trying to get control on you. Erti kata lain, korang pikir pompuan nak korang tunduk pada kemahuan dorang. Maybe dats why tercipta lah perkataan "Queen Control" enn but actually, kalau korang renung renung enn balik, it's not like that tau. Korang yang menyebab enn fenomena mcm tu berlaku. Because, korang sangat tak take things seriously. Korang take it lightly sgt sgt. Sume benda selagi korang boleh bwt jd main2...korang buat. Memang lah dalam hidup tak blh serious sgt, kena main2 gak pe bnd sume tu enn. Yelah aku tak deny tapi bertempat lah. Kena lah pada masa nya. If that situation needs you to be damn serious, blh tak serious? Tak susah enn? Tak semua bnd korang blh buat main!! Korang nak ckp pompuan ni suke control pe bnd sume. Tapi korang tu, bile cakap sekali tak dgr! Dah cakap cara lembut tak dgr. Bila dah naik suara, tangan, kaki semua baru terhegeh hegeh nak dgr. First time cakap, tak jalan. Second time pon camtu. Third time, bila dah bising2, baru nak jalan. Habis nak macam mane? Ckap elok2 korang tak dgr bile ckp kasar baru nak jalan??? Tu yang korang ckp pompuan queen control. Padahal korang yg buat dorang macam tu. Pastu tau plak, bila kitrg yang taknak dgr, or balas balik ape korang buat, tau plak nak marah?? Tau pon bengang nak majok ape sume. Korang buat kat kitrg takpe??? Kat korang tak blh? Wahh adilnye. Mane sikap 1 Malaysia korang??? Pastu bila nak marah, taknak plak cam gunung berapi tahap dewa enn?? Ohh bile kitrg naek suare sikit dah cakap over. Tapi yang korang plak tak plak ter over over over dan over??
Hesh. Keluar sume amarah dalam diri. Kesimpulan nya aku nak cakap ni..pada semua...JANGAN CAKAP JE.JALAN!!!
p/s: It hurts to say goodbye even that's what I want.
ngeng.
tol2 ak setju
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